Decisions, decisions

Let’s see a show of hands. How many are unclear on the mechanics of losing one’s virginity? No one? Okay, we’re all clear on that concept. So what you need to figure out is the where, when, and who, rather than the how. And since you’re here, you probably already have the why.

Where?

We will start with the where. Once upon a time, determining the where was easy: the back seat of a ‘55 Chevy.

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Picture this achingly familiar scenario: You have been dating a great guy, you have a close relationship, things are going well. Soon though, he starts to withdraw, gets distant, does not call or come around. Eventually he gives you the “I’m not ready” speech, or “Its not you, it’s me”, etc. Did you take notice, though, of what you did when you first realized he was withdrawing? Did you know that women normally exhibit 1 or more of 5 behaviors? Check this out

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Your friend has decided that you need help with your social life so she sets you up with a blind date.a friend of a friend of a friend. You, foolishly, accept. Now there you are. It’s less than one hour since you were introduced. You are sitting in a Thai restaurant and you hate Thai food. The entre has not yet been served. His idea of enlightened conversation is who will be in the final fouryou aren’t into sports.

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Common questions most often posed to me are, “Do we need to see a relationship counselor? I think we have sexual problems? How do we find the right specialist? A sex therapist, in the world do you do? Just mentioning sex and human sexuality continue to disturb and cause a state of unrest for most, when thrown into the mix of conversations of our modern culture.

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Most men have fears - some don’t like spiders, others don’t like heights, and still others fear going bald or getting a pot belly. These are not things that men naturally lay out on the table and discuss. One very common fear among men, though, that should be discussed, is the fear of approaching women.

One of the first things that men can learn to do to help overcome approach anxiety is practice. Practice makes perfect after all, and the more you do it, the more comfortable you will become. The more comfortable you become, the more success you will have. Women can sense a man’s ease - and if he is easily able to strike up a conversation with her, that will make her more comfortable.

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