So you’re ready to kiss the girl you’ve been hanging out with. You might be on your third date, on a first date where it’s really “on,” or maybe you just met her five minutes ago and are feeling really ballsy. Either way, you have to go for the kiss in a way that ravishes the girl and shows you’re really in charge of your emotions and actions. A quick note: do NOT ask her if it’s ok to kiss her. That’s wussy.

Here are the three best ways to go for the kiss:

1) The Power Move

This kiss maneuver requires a specific set up, being on a couch with drinks, but if you can pull it off, it’s amazing. Ross Jeffries created this masterpiece in 1989, and it hasn’t lost its touch since. While you’re sitting with drinks in hand, start talking about something neutral. Put your drink down, and while you’re still talking, put HER drink down as well. Literally take it from her hand. Without saying anything else, just pull her in and kiss her. It’s dominant, sexy, and will be something she remembers.

3) Three Question Kiss Close

Originated by Swinggcat in 2003, this tactic has you get the woman to affirm good things about herself a few times before you go in for the kiss. Begin with “Let me ask you, are you adventurous?” Then ask “Are you spontaneous?” Lastly, “How good of a kisser are you from 1-10?” When she answers, which will probably be 9 or 10, say “Let’s find out…” and go for it. This is the most consistent kiss tactic I’ve used, and works great in bars for quick makeouts.

3) The “Almost Kiss”

An ex-marine known as Future came up with this within the past couple years, and its’ become a community favorite. After you’ve been talking to a girl for a while and have built some comfort, you say, “Now, we’ve been talking a while, and I think we’re ready for the next step, but not quite at the kiss level yet. We’re going to have an ‘almost kiss.’” You then tell her you’re going to put your mouths as close together as possible without kissing, and then come back. After ten minutes do another “almost kiss,” and repeat again. The second or third time, she’ll end up breaking the rules and kissing you first.

These three tactics will get you the kiss more quickly than any other method. You have to go for the kiss congruently and confidently, and not worry about rejection. If she turns you down, so what? You can go for it later. If you’re in the habit of going for the kiss early and frequently, you will find you can begin passionate relationships very easily.

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