Every guy wants one really great woman in his life. Sure, there are some of us who are greedy and would like more, but one is usually enough. With one great woman you will usually go much much farther in life. You simply wont have to waist time dating women who aren’t good for you. What I’m going to give you here is a 5 step system to help you find that great girlfriend of your own.

Step 1: What Do You Want From A Relationship?

The first thing you need to decide is what you are looking for in a relationship. What would your ideal relationship be like? How will this relationship effect your life? What are your relationship needs? If a woman doesn’t meet your needs then she won’t make a good girlfriend for you.

Step 2: What Kind Of Woman Do You Want?

Sexual interest and relationship interest are two different things. When you are looking for a long-term relationship you have to know what sort of woman you want. For short-term flings you don’t worry about allot of the little things.

Figure out what sort of qualities you like and want from a woman. What sort of behavior are you willing to tolerate? How does she treat her family? How will she treat your family? Write down behavior that you like and behavior you don’t like. If she has to many under things you don’t like then let that woman go.

Step 3: Where Can I Meet Her?

You should try to meet women at places that interest you. If you like art then go to places where you can see art and learn about art. If you like live music then go check out some new bands playing in your area. If you want to stay away from girls who like to party then don’t go to clubs to meet women. This one is just common sense so use it.

Step 4: How Do I Approach Her?

This is super easy if you do it right. If you were taking dancing lesson would it be hard to approach a woman? No it wouldn’t be. If you like to read and were at a bookstore would it be hard to approach a woman. No it wouldn’t be. The hard part of course would be overcoming your fears. All you have to do is to say something that is related to the topic. For example, at the bookstore you could ask her opinion on a good book to read.

Step 5: How Do I Get Her Contact Information?

To get her phone number all you have to do is just ask. There are simply better ways to do it then others, but it still boils down to having the guts to ask her for it. A great a way to do this is to simply tell her that you want it. Don’t try to be sneaky about it or anything like that. Something like this will work. “I really enjoyed talking to you. I want to see you again. Put your number in my cell.”

Where To Go From Here

At this point moving forward you should be repeating the process. You don’t put all your effort into one woman until you are at the relationship stage. This is why it is called dating. You need to see what is out there and what your options are. Feel free to let the women know that you are dating other women at this time. This shows them that you respect them and that you are a man of integrity.

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