If you are starting to think about how to create the most romantic evening imaginable, you are already doing the right thing. The key to romance is planning and preparation. So if you are “plotting” to surprise your sweetheart with an evening she will always remember, the more time you have to prepare the better.

Let’s not kid ourselves that it’s not hard sometimes to come up with really great ideas for a romantic date. But the key is to look to those in this world who live and breathe romance and get ideas from them. Movies, television and popular music are great sources of ideas for romantic dates. By just taking some notes when you enjoy those areas of entertainment, you can put together a pretty impressive list of ideas in no time.

But there is an even more surefire way of using the imagination of Hollywood to your advantage. Don’t bother collecting those ideas yourself, get them from your sweetheart directly. If you and your gal have been dating for a while, you have probably dragged through a few dozen romantic movies by now with her. Just think back on the ones that she liked the best and of the things that made her sigh or go “awww” in the movie. Right there is your list of things your sweetie things are romantic.

Don’t be afraid to keep some notes because the heart of giving her a romantic night like nothing she has ever known is to be completely creative and new in your ideas and to surprise her with your romantic plans. Be fearless in doing romantic things that are even completely new to you. Whether that means wearing a tuxedo for a regular midweek date or singing her favorite romantic pop song to her perfectly as you ride in a carriage around the park. If it’s a wonderful surprise and it shows her that you are full of feelings for her, it’s going to make memories of this night that will last a lifetime.

The same creativity you are using can also transform the tried and true methods such as giving her flowers. No romantic evening would be complete without some roses but you can use some romance by surprising her with them at the restaurant. Restaurants love to get in on your romantic conspiracy so it wont take much coaxing to get the waiter to bring your sweetie a bouquet or roses you provided during the desert to make her squeal with delight.

During this most romantic night, you should make pleasing your girl your only reason for living. There are dozens of little things you will think of as the evening unfolds that will give her goose bumps simply because for these few hours, she is your princess. Open the door for her, compliment her without ceasing, be a tiny bit jealous of all of her attention and let her know that her every wish is the law of the land for you. These are the things she will remember forever about this most special night.

Amazingly, there are lots of romantic details you can include in your plans that done mean spending an arm and a leg. All you have to do is read ads from women looking for men to see that it’s the simple things like walking hand in hand in the moonlight or cuddling in a romantic setting that create the kind of romance she will write her mother about.

But there is a carefully guarded secret that romantic Casanovas know that doesn’t cost a dime because you already own it. That is to give to your lover a little bit of yourself. Anybody can give a girl an evening of events but if you give her a little time to get to know the real you, that is what touches a woman deepest. Open up to her who you really are and what makes you tick inside. Let her see your emotions and areas where you are vulnerable and she will blossom like a flower in front of you.

The result is your girl will give all of her heart, all of her romance and all of her passion as well. By giving her what she really wants, to know you intimately, it will become not only her most romantic night of her life, there is a good chance it will be the most romantic night of your life as well.

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