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Dating Tips: Attracting a “10
Posted by Vin DiCarlo at Jul 13th, 2008 in Dating Tips
If you are interested in meeting, attracting and keeping a “10″, then you should read this letter.
But first, let’s go waaay back…
When I was in high school, there was this girl in my class who was perfect.
She was smart, cool, and so beautiful it was hard to look at her (and yet I couldn’t look away)…
She was one of the popular kids, but was friendly to everyone.
Occasionally we talked and as I look back I realize that we were flirting (I was so stupid to realize at that time).
I was really wanted to ask her to senior prom… but at the last minute I chickened out.
I realized after some few years that the girl had a crushed on me all the senior year.
I’ve talked to a lot of guys and this seems a pretty common experience among them there was this ONE SPECIAL WOMAN who you crushed on from afar, and they missed an opportunity with her, or she broke your heart…
Ah, the unreachable “10,” a perfect woman that every men dream but seems hard to attain.
I have so many things to say about this so-called “10’s.” In one word they are women of another “breed,” but at the same time, what makes them so is in the way they think.
Understanding your own fascination with female perfection, and understanding the reality of extremely beautiful women will help you resolve this conundrum, and maybe help you find that “perfect girl” for yourself.
First of all, the concept of a “10″ is a myth. There is no such thing as a perfect human being. No woman is more “valuable” just because she looks nicer than other women.
A woman that turns you on and have a great chemistry with you is the only true “10″ and is the one that’s perfect for you.
Following this reasoning, the world is full of 10’s, given you have the skills to meet a lot of women and create options for yourself.
It will be a failure on your part if you treat women differently just basing solely on looks or on whose much prettier.
Why?
Because almost all men do that.
The girl knows what you are about and she sees you as a shallow guy.
But of course there are certain women that seem on another “level” of beauty than the other. And they are treated much differently than other women.
You need to understand on how you will deal with these kinds of women.
As what I’ve said, you shouldn’t treat women “differently.”
Let me explain it.
You shouldn’t treat a girl BETTER than the others. But there are two things you need to know.
First of all, a woman is turn off for those men that chases her only for the looks alone.
A woman wants to be appreciated for her personality above anything else.
Now for your own sake I’m going to give you a heads up.
There are two types of “10’s.”
High self esteem, and low self-esteem.
The common type is the low self-esteem 10’s. The women that belongs to this group are used to being wanted for their looks and they know that they didn’t EARN an attention, so they have a guilt complex.
In fact, most of their lives they’ve probably coasted, and are complete dumbasses.
It may sounds not good but I call it like it is.
These women take away their validation will make them flip out and do anything to get it back. They also respond to jerk-behavior.
Anything.
(As a side, these girls usually suck in bed and are total head cases when you get involved with them.)
Meanwhile, the high self-esteem 10’s are women that have had a taste of the elite - early from the start they realized that high levels of society were attainable to them, they exert an effort be intelligent, successful and make the most of their lives.
These women know that they are just a little closer to a great life than everyone else, and so they are motivated to put in the extra effort.
Usually HSE 10’s are intellegent, have good attitudes, have a direction in life and have lots of interests beyond being clubbing.
In fact, most of beautiful women I’ve dated didn’t go to the club. They just spend their nights being with their families, reading, or having a nice dinner with friends (or studying if they were in college).
One of the interesting thing about this types of women are that they are single for long periods of time while in-between boyfriends. Why?
The women here have a high standards for themselves, and this makes most guys either too intimidated to approached and ask them out, or act too needy and pathetic around them, it’s seldom they meet another man who is at the same level with them.
But here’s the good thing. If you understand The Attraction Code you will know that these women are the easiest to attract.
The Attraction Code is about being the best man you can be, being a “male 10.”
You will notice an interesting thing if you start to apply the Attraction Code.
There is an Auto-Rejection Mechanism that I call where some women will try to protect themselves from being rejected by you, by rejecting YOU first. This is where you’ll get odd responses from less attractive women - they will occasionally be rude to you because they know they’re not on your level.
But the most attractive, cool women will respond much differently…you’ll be amazed to see the most beautiful women warm right up to you as soon as you approach - whether on the street or in the bar - because they can see that you are on their “level.”
The girl will thinks “finally, a guy who can hang with me; he’s confident and treats me like a real person. And he’s the only guy who’s actually tried to talk to me today, instead of whistling from his car.”
The Attraction Code is meant for these kinds of women. Of course you’ll also enjoy plenty of “adventures” with all kinds of women, but ultimately this is about having the option of dating the hottest, highest quality women.
There are lot of 10’s out there waiting for you.
Don’t spend another year of your life missing out.
Vin



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