There are three reasons for this.

First, being socially proactive may be new to you.

I remember the first time I started weight lifting, I don’t have an upper pectoral muscles - the muscle right at the top of your chest just under your clavicle that make your chest look big.

Although I have but it was so small and weak and it took me three weeks to notice them. I was incredibly sore and could barely move my arms every time I worked them out.

And then I reached the point where the muscle was developed that I could handle heavy weight without all the fatigue and soreness. Same as in your mind.

You need to push yourself harder everyday in accordance to the level of your skills. Because developing a new neuro-pathways will take time.

Another reason you may feel social fatigue is because you think there’s too much to do or learn when meeting women.

This is actually a little different from “fatigue.” It’s more like feeling overwhelmed.

One way that can frazzle your mind is when you are overwhelmed by something. And this can lead to some sort of discouragement, exhaustion and depression. It’s like your body saying “Whew, enough for this much work, I’m quitting before I can even begin”

This will hinder you from doing any progress. I was in this situation when I was putting a lot of theories on my notes. And as I looked at them I’ve seen that I am just like looking for a huge and complex physics equation.

Doing ALL of this stuff just to had a quality women in my life was so discouraging to think.

The last reason for feeling exhausted in the dating and mating game is that you are spending too much mental energy in the wrong places, wasting your focus on stuff that isn’t useful to pickup.

Many men fails in attracting women and in fact almost 99% of men gets it wrong. Usually the women can’t tell because most men after a harsh rejections learn to keep their inner “stuff” to their self.

But this doesn’t deny the truth that when the average guy is attracted to a woman, he exerts his effort and mental energy on trying to impress the woman, or figure out if she likes him.

As what we have seen and heard in the media, from our parents and friends - generally it lets us know that man’s role is to IMPRESS the woman and in return EARN sex with her.

That’s Silly!

I get so mad when I see some commercial with a guy bumbling around trying to impress some cute girl, and looking like a fool while she giggles like she’s better than him because she’s a girl.

Ok enough ranting… the point is that most guys are screwed when it comes to being in control of their dating lives.

The matter of attraction for a guy will be change if he will only takes the time to adjust the way his mind works.

Once you get to highest level of your interaction with women, you will truly be attractive to them. You just need to be at your best both physically and emotionally.

A GUY AT HIS BEST.

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