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I am NOT a very fashionable type of guy.

Usually the one who pick out clothes for me is my girlfriend - not for MY benefits…

… so that if we go out in public together she will not feel embarrassed!

If it were up to me, I’d wear sweats and a t-shirt all day, with some old worn out sneakers. I mean, I think fashion is pretty silly.

I can definitely appreciate the artistic aspect of fashion design and style. When you look at a really well dressed woman, her outfit is like a work of art, and I dig that.

I kinda lose respect when a guy is “too stylish.”

Don’t get me wrong, a man should present himself like he means to be taken seriously. A nice suit, good quality, well-fitting clothes are a fundamental part of masculine expression.

But some guys take it too far.

Case in point, the obsession with “peacocking” in the pickup Community for the past several years.

Hearing that words makes me cringe.

YOU ARE NOT A PEACOCK.

If you’re not familiar with “peacocking,” let me explain.

A while ago, there was an emergence of routine-based “game,” relying heavily on superficial techniques, status games, and over-analysis of social interactions.

I didn’t see the value of any of this, and have always gone in the opposite direction.

Reason for this is that I saw how pretending to be someone other than yourself, and saying jokes and routines that other guys came up with JUST FELT WRONG.

The PRIMARY FOCUS of all these strategy and game-playing was to visibly get approval from women, but making them feel insecure and they’d think you were cooler than them.

Think of this bullshit layers in the approach to dating. Not only are you faking your personality because you

a) look for approval (as if girls were an authority on what makes man a man)

b) hide the fact that you’re seeking approval

c) play games with women so that they will seek your approval when they feel insecure

YUCK

To dress up in a really loud, ostentatious way so that women would “notice” you and want to talk to you is a kind of “peacock,”. And “peacock” is one of the main techniques in approaching women.

Now there’s nothing wrong with wearing a nice watch, or a necklace that has some personal meaning.

But I never do that just to make women like me.

I’m pretty sure a lot of men has seen this approach on TV shows, straining to make sense out of this hare-brained “technique.”

I felt sad to the students of other pickup schools that I’ve encountered because these poor guys were not only nervous, clumsy, misdirected…they looked RETARDED.

So I’d like to set a record when it comes to fashion and meeting girls.

There are few pieces of things you need to pay attention to when it comes to your physical looks.

After knowing this stuff, you should put it out of your mind and TAKE ACTION before women can notice you.

Before we move on, I have a secret that has to reveal.

(Continued in Part 2)

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