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Four Steps To Pick Her Up
Posted by John Harris at Jan 23rd, 2008 in Dating Tips
When women are attracted to men, it is because the man has displayed to her that he has superior genes. A woman desires subconsciously to have superior offspring, evolutionarily speaking. Consequently, her number one biological criteria when selecting a man to have sex with is whether or not the man has shown her alpha male traits (superior genes).
Of course, women don’t consciously make this decision. It is a result of millions of years of evolution. We are animals. Sophisticated animals, but animals nonetheless. When a woman becomes sexually interested in a man, her thoughts are not “He has good genes so I want to have sex with him so I can have good offspring”.
Instead, her thoughts are probably “He is alluring. I like him. He makes me feel womanly and beautiful and horny”. Her emotions tell her, not her rational, sane conscious mind.
Doesn’t this just make sense? Think about all the times in your life that you have witnessed this. You have probably noticed women falling for jerks, rich guys, jocks, and celebrities. If you had looked closer, you would have noticed that the majority of these guys simply had alpha male characteristics.
When a woman meets this type of man, common sense and logic go to the waist side. How many times have you heard a woman say she prefers a certain kind of man, but dates the exact opposite?
Seducing a woman can basically be broken down into four parts.
1. The man exhibits alpha male characteristics and aligns himself in the woman’s field of vision.
This should seem obvious. You can have the goods, but if you don’t display them, how will she know? You simply must leave the house and go where women are.
* The woman sends the man signals that she is interested.
The majority of men are not very good at reading a woman’s body language. Fortunately, it is a learned skill that can be developed over time.
* The man approaches the woman after receiving the signals
An important point to remember is to approach at a 45 degree angle. Approaching straight on is too intense for most women and will probably scare her off. Also, your opening comment should be relevant to the situation. Don’t use pickup lines!
* The man discreetly presents the woman an opportunity to be alone and possibly have sex.
This is key. A woman will never respond favorably to a direct advance, even if she wants to. A woman appreciates and craves the entire process. When a man ruins it by directly suggesting sex, the mood is ruined, all the spontaneity and magic are gone, and the woman has resorted to using logic (Never a good thing when trying to court her).
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