Today’s article is about frames and how having the proper frame in any encounter in life (Especially with women) will improve your chances ten fold. The concept is simple but can be difficult to master. As with anything, practice makes perfect.

Consider a common frame a man might have when approaching a woman he’s never met. It might be along the lines of: “Gosh, she’s so pretty. I hope I can make a good impression on her so she’ll like me. What if she doesn’t like me”?

Sound familiar? Do you think having this frame before talking to a woman will help your cause? What if instead the man had this frame: “Hmmm. She seems like the kind of girl who might be worthy of me. Today’s her lucky day, because I’m going to give her a chance to show me if she’s worthy”.

The second frame is obviously more powerful. The way I look at it, if you’re going to go up to a woman and start a conversation, you may as well have the proper frame. If you’re going to do something, do it right! A few days ago I covered having a good foundation. That applies here.

You need to realize that you are the prize. You are the chooser. You are the one who decides if any encounter with a woman you meet is going to go to the next level. When you have these kinds of thoughts going through your head, women will pick up on it, trust me.

However, don’t ever verbally say these things. That would just be plain arrogant! Let your actions say it. Every encounter you have with a woman you are interested in is an opportunity for her to show you what kind of woman she is. She needs to prove herself to you. The choosy get the cream of the crop. The beggars get nothing.

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