What if I told you there are magic words you can use to get your ex back? I know it may be hard to believe, but trust me, I will show you a simple technique to get your ex back in touch with you in no time. I want to share this with you because this is what my users ask of me every time. So, lets get started on “get back with my ex”.

“How to get my ex back” will start with getting your ex to return your phone call, IM or text message. Remember, this can be done easily, but it’s just a simple formula and not a complete plan. You can learn more about that in our ebook. If you do this right, it will be the begining of a wonderfull get back together with your ex.

Ok, the first thing you have to learn is what not to say. Many people make this, so I will explain them. This will almost never work, will get you into a disadvantage position and only create a situation where you will not get your ex back

Pleading - You call your ex and say something like “Hello, please call me, I’ve been calling you all day and I really need to talk to you”. As you may see, this is one call that is going to be unanswered. It will get the calling part into desperate state and only separete you more from your ex. You don’t use pity to get your ex back.

The Emergency. “Hello, I am calling you because I have an emergency, please call me as soon as possible.” Your ex can catch this fake call a mile away. What does this say about you? Only that you are desperate enough to lie, and this is clearly not going to help you.

AS you see, these will not do. You don’t want to be a liar nor be pitied by your ex. Instead, lets review a simple method to get your ex back on the phone.

How To Use Curiosity & Self Interest To Your Advantage Two of the most powerful forces in the human mind are Curiosity and Self Interest. And here’s the BIG SECRET! When you combine the two, you have a recipe that WILL work “magic” So, Let’s look at what you can say that works nearly EVERY TIME.

In a friendly tone: “Hi John. It’s Cindy. I wanted to let you know I appreciate what you did for me. Call me because I want to thank you in person.” Do you see how that uses BOTH curiosity and self interest? John will NOT be able to resist! “What did I do?” “What does she appreciate?” he will be thinking. And he feels good because it is a positive message. this is a call that is going to be returned.

Ok, now you need to prepare what it is that your ex did that you appreciate. Surely you remember your good times with your ex, and there were moments when you received an advice or support in one form or another. Think about that and you have your setup ready for the date. Please remember that this is only the beginning. I want you to get back to yor ex, so this is only the first step.

If you apply this technique with no underlying strategy and they call you back you can do more DAMAGE than good if you do not handle it correctly. Okay? What I am saying is: What you do before, during and after you get them to return your call is MORE important than getting them to return your call. Using this simple technique, you will have your ex calling you back, but you have to do more to get her/him back for real.

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