Young men are taught that their urges is crude and silly, and that it is just a favor that women ALLOWS them to mate with them.

There’s a syndrome that I call a “doofus dad” syndromeThere’s another societal factor going on, . In almost every TV commercial and sitcom, the “dad” or “boyfriend” or “husband” is a dopey, incompetent goof, and the mom/daughter/girlfriend/wife has to use her superior intelligence to fix the situation.

This will bring to the idea that the time of the women is more valuable than men because of the perception that women are “better.”

If your time is not so valuable, then you will feel obligated to give her LOTS OF IT.

But here’s the thing - if you are giving a girl too much time, you will end up not present for most of that time. You will be distracted, resentful, you will give her your “half-assed” attention.

When I analyzed tons and tons of dates I went on women, it was just when I realized it.

After that I started to give my FULL ATTENTION to women even though I’m only giving a smaller amounts of my time.

Not only did this make our time better, it created MASSIVE ATTRACTION because I left women craving more.

Now my girlfriends can’t get enough of me - in fact, I don’t GIVE THEM “enough.”

You see, “enough” would mean, “overexposure” to me, and women can’t be pulled to what they already have.

The proper way to manage your time is by being HONEST. And I don’t recommend you to play games with women and pretend to be busy or whatever.

No games, just be real with her - don’t spend more time that you want.

Focus on your personal goals, and enjoy whatever free time you have with women. Be a man on the go.

Now in a short amount of time it requires that you are able to meet a lot of women, which I’ll have to cover in another newsletter.

It’s not good to see that men waste their lives chasing and “putting up with” girls, and then they are left out ALONE.

You should think that women aren’t property that you can keep or somehow bring with you when you die.

You can’t “keep” a woman by investing all your time with her.

I want to make one more point - when you start being honest about how much time you’re willing to give a woman, you may feel GUILTY.

Either she will try to make you feel guilty, or you will feel it on your own. This is ok, it just means you have a weak focus.

You see, it usually comes from the social norm if you are following your true ways.

You will most likely experience some discomfort, tension, guilt, even loneliness at first, if you are in the habit of adopting the values others try to impose onto you.

That’s why I set out on a journey to discover and develop the Attraction Code. It’s all about self-control, finding true path, and letting the real ‘you’ emerge from within.

And no, we don’t try to impose our values or goals onto you. We think you’ll be able to do that for yourself, given the proper guidance.

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