Ask your partner if he or she remembers when you both met. Were there a lot of sparks and fun flirting with the first meeting? Now you both don’t know why you both don’t connect the way you used to like when you first met.

You pine for that exhilarating falling in love or infatuated feeling—but don’t want to abandon the relationship. There’s too much time and love you both have invested together . Here are some tips which will help you how to fall in love again. What qualities about your partner first fascinated you or made you fall in love anyway?

* Get some flirting going, laugh, smile…joke around together. Nothing is more desirable than someone flirting a little then holding back. Then, find something else to do, leaving them wondering if they want more from you later.

* Don’t be available continually. Get caught up in your work, responsibilities, activities…Find things that you like to do. Spend time with some of your friends or buddies. Your ex or partner will wonder about what you are doing.

* Try to look your most attractive. If you want, get a flattering new hairstyle, makeup (if you’re a woman). Work out or get some kind of exercise—as this will reflect in your energy level. You will come across as more energetic and sexy to your ex or significant other.

* Learn to listen to your ex or partner when you meet. Nothing is more sexy than a good listener, and your partner will notice. Show some kindness, and talk about the time when you met and how that affected you.

Relationships take awhile to get back to the way they were when they first started. Be independent with your life with other activities and friends, yet make sure you spend time with the one you love. Your time together will be much more special.

Don’t expect an instant reconciliation—if it’s meant to happen then it will in time. The best thing you can do is not to rush or force things or your ex will begin to think you are desperate. Be cool about it, but be loving.

Even if you are living apart, realize that you can fall in love again if you choose to work at it together. Relationships are often strong yet fragile. Love takes time to grow and be nurtured.

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