Do you ever realize that Online profiles begin with the word “I”? Even though you are the one who is longing for true love, the online dating process really should not be about you.

Sandhriel states: “Online Dating is not about the person posting the ad, but about the person they are looking for; this is called Compound Interest. You can achieve success when you ‘Pay it Forward.’”

“Paying WHAT forward??” you may ask.

Let’s give this some thought. The Online Dating industry takes in over $2 billion dollars per year, with more than 10 million daters looking for true love online. With that many people online looking for true love just like you are, you will most likely spend your time rejecting others and getting rejected yourself. Another way of saying this is once you have made your outstanding profile public, what’s left to do is really weeding through the dozens or even hundreds of men or women that come towards you.

So while you’re waiting for your true love, earn some karma points by learning how to gracefully say “thanks, but no thanks,” because that is what you’ll spend most of your time doing on the Internet.

“We all have heard the saying that ‘what goes out comes back tenfold.’ What we tend to forget is that no one should have to earn our kindness and our respect. Everyone deserves these gifts from us for the simplest fact that we share in the same sun light, the same water, the same air, and we all walk pretty similar paths to one another, a journey called life. We have to recognize and never forget that we all are looking for the same thing: Unconditional love,” says Chaszey.

It may take some time and willingness to send rejection e-mails to potential partners that show your effort, are filled with grace and show your kindness. Chaszey says: “Don’t underestimate how much your kind words are worth to the recipient. Not only may you mend a broken heart, but you will gain karma points that are subjected to compound interest on a whole new level. Your life can only change for the better. Maybe hard to explain, but worth the try.”

These points add to your character and create a new, stronger and kinder you that undoubtedly will attract the right person you so deserve.

So before you hit that pre-programmed “thanks but no thanks” button, take a few minutes and read the other person’s profile anyway, and send them a response that is filled with your kindness, not because they deserve it, but because that’s who you are.

You can reach Chaszey Sandhriel at her website at www.youronlinedatingcoach.com. She has helped hundreds of clients get profiles that get noticed. Download her free tips and get on her free tele-seminars. Or call her at 415.419.7952.

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