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Pick Up Artist Secrets: Attracting a “10

by Vin DiCarlo

If you are interested in meeting, attracting and keeping a 10, then I think you’ll find this letter very interesting.

But before anything else, let’s go waaaay back…

It was in my high school, that there was a girl in my class who was seems so perfect.

She was smart, cool, and so beautiful it was hard to look at her (and yet I couldn’t look away)…

She was friendly to everyone and was one of the popular kids in school.

Occasionally we talked and as I look back I realize that we were flirting (I was so stupid to realize at that time).

I badly wanted to ask her to a senior prom but I chickened out at the last minute.

A few years later I realized she had a crush on me all senior year.

I’ve talked to a lot of guys and this seems a pretty common experience among them there was this ONE SPECIAL WOMAN who you crushed on from afar, and they missed an opportunity with her, or she broke your heart…

Ah, the unreachable “10,” a perfect woman that every men dream but seems hard to attain.

I have a lot to say about the concept of “10’s,” In deeper sense they are another “breed” of women, but it is on the way they think that makes them so.

To help you resolve this conundrum, and maybe help you find that “perfect girl” for yourself, you need to understand you own fascination with female perfection, and understand the reality behind extremely beautiful women.

First of all, “10″ is just a myth. No human being can be considered as perfect. You CANNOT say that a woman who looks prettier than the women is more “valuable”.

The only true “10″ is the one that’s perfect for you, a woman that turns you on, whom you have great chemistry with.

The world is full of 10’s, you just need to have the skills and ability to approach a lot of women and make an options for yourself.

It will be a failure on your part if you treat women differently just basing solely on looks or on whose much prettier.

Why?

Because a lot of guys do that.

The girl knows what you are about and she sees you as a shallow guy.

But of course there are certain women that seem on another “level” of beauty than the other. And they are treated much differently than other women.

This is important to understand so that you know how to deal with these kinds of women.

As I’ve said, you shouldn’t treat women “differently.”

Let me clear this up.

You shouldn’t treat them BETTER than other women. But there are a couple things you need to know.

First, she don’t like a guy that chases her for her looks alone.

A woman wants to be appreciated for her personality above anything else.

Now for your own sake I’m going to give you a heads up.

There are two types of “10’s.”

High self esteem, and low self-esteem.

Low self esteem 10’s are pretty common. They are used to being wanted for their looks, but they know that they didn’t EARN that attention, so they have a guilt complex.

In fact, most of their lives they’ve probably coasted, and are complete dumbasses.

It may sound harsh but I call it like that.

These women will respond to jerk behavior. They take away and flip out their validation will and do anything to get it back.

Anything.

(Aside from that, these women usually suck in bed and are total head cases when you get involved with them.)

Now high self-esteem 10’s are women that have had a taste of the elite -they realized early on that high levels of society were attainable to them, and they made an effort to be successful, intelligent, and make the most of their lives.

They know that they can get closer to a great life than everyone else, and they are motivated to put a lot of hard work to attain that.

Usually these women have good attitudes, are intelligent, have a direction in life and have lots of interests beyond being clubbing.

Actually, most of beautiful women I’ve dated didn’t even go to the club. They like to spend their evenings being with their families, reading, or having a nice dinner with friends (or studying if they were in college).

One of the interesting thing about this types of women are that they are single for long periods of time while in-between boyfriends. Why?

It is because they have high standards for themselves, and this makes most men either too intimidated to ask them out, or act too needy and pathetic around them, it’s rare that they meet another man who is on their level.

But here’s the good news. These women are the easiest to attract when you understand The Attraction Code.

Being the best man you can be and being a “male 10″ is what you will get from these Attraction Code.

You’ll notice an interesting thing when you start to embody the Attraction Code.

Occasionally women that are less attractive will be rude to you and you’ll get an odd responses from them- that is because they know they’re not on your level - I call this as Auto-Rejection Mechanism. Some girls will try to protect themselves from being rejected by you, by rejecting YOU first.

But the most attractive, cool women will respond much differently…you’ll be amazed to see the most beautiful women warm right up to you as soon as you approach - whether on the street or in the bar - because they can see that you are on their “level.”

The woman will thinks “finally, a guy who can hang with me; he’s confident and treats me like a real person. And he’s the only guy who’s actually tried to talk to me today, instead of whistling from his car.”

The Attraction Code is intended for these kinds of women. And you’ll also enjoy a lot of “adventures” with all kinds of women, but this is about having the option of dating the hottest, highest quality women.

There are plenty of 10’s out there waiting for you.

Don’t waste you’re time waiting for nothing.

Vin

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