Some pick up lines are unbecoming, boring and rude.

How many times have we heard cheesy pick up lines like:

“Nice shoes. Wanna bang?”

“Your name must be Gillet, because you’re the best a man can get.”

“Your daddy must have been a thief, because he stole the stars and put them in your eyes.”

Using a line like these will get you nowhere with a woman fast, chances are she will not even speak to you.

Because pick of lines such as these, which are bad get too much attention, while encouraging others to consider that all pick up lines are worthless.

However, this is not correct.

A good pick up line will ACTUALLY help you pick up a woman.

The true point in using pick up lines is to begin a conversation.

That is all.

Once you get the girl talking with you, then you can work your magic and do what you need to do to get the date, the phone number, or the make-out.

But if you can’t get the conversation started, then you can do anything else!

Because you shouldn’t just be talking to a girl. You should be ENGAGING the girl. Pulling her into a conversation with you is the only sure-fire way to further your agenda.

And guess what? A good pick up line will do that!

Do you know that when most men meet women they are at a loss for words to begin talking to a woman? They try to think of something off the top of their head, while often missing the opportunity of meeting a nice woman, before they can think of something to say.

It is essential to have at least a couple of good working pick up lines, especially for those times when you are nervous and cannot think of anything original that helps you take action.

But don’t be fooled into thinking you can get away with a line like:

“Do I know you from somewhere?”

All women know this to be a lame pick up line. You might think you’re being clever when you say this, but you’re not.

Other bad pick up lines include, asking for directions, complimenting her on her clothing and telling her she looks like some big celebrity.

Why do you think this is?

This is because these lines do not engage the woman into a conversation with you, once she answers your question, she may not show interest in conversing with you.

Good pick up lines avoid “yes and no” answers. They are about getting the girl to think about her response, evoking an emotional reaction, and making her WANT to continue to communicate with you.

So how do you engage a girl?

Asking her opinion of something is the easiest way to do this, since each woman has an opinion and they like sharing their ideas, especially about relationships.

Good pick up lines work like this, for example. Say something to the woman, like this, Hi, I need you opinion on something, do you think it is normal for a woman to try to time a pregnancy so that her baby is born within a particular zodiac sign? I would really like to hear the opinion of a woman about this subject.

Once you engage her in the conversation you may follow up with a tale of some woman who wants to be sure she and her children are astrologically compatible, to make life a bit more enjoyable as life moves along.

This leads to all kinds of different conversation topics, things like:

1. Children 2. Marriage 3. Astrology 4. Pregnancy 5. Relationships

The places you can go with this type of line are limitless. Here are some of my favorite follow-ups.

“Do you think there’s something to astrology?” (then lead into more discussion about destiny or fate.)

“What is your sign?” (No matter what she says - be sure to mention your sign is compatible with hers!)

“Are you fond of children? You seem very nurturing.”

I could go on and on, but you get the idea.

So as you can see, this pick up line is designed to pull the girl into a deep and interesting conversation, and gives you the opportunity to get to know her better and allow her to become familiar with you.

This is how conversations are started!

From that point, it should be rather easy to ask her for a telephone number and possibly set up a first date.

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