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Russian Dating and Marriage - Myths Exposed
Posted by John Gibbons at Jun 28th, 2008 in Dating Tips
There are many rumors in circulation that claim that Russian brides are cheap and can be virtually bought from a website. These rumors could not be further than the truth. The fact remains that Russia is an extremely proud nation, and not every Russian girl is a scam artist. As a matter of fact, Russian women, by and large, are only looking for love, like any other woman of the world.
Many men from the Western cultures are sent over to Russia, either for business trips or because their offices have settled in Moscow, St. Petersburg, and other cities in Russia. Men who visit these areas always come back home with many stories of well educated, clever, and beautiful women that they have seen.
It is true that Russian women are extremely charming and beautiful, but they also know that, in reality, beauty is but skin deep. Many wealthy men approach them, but they know an honest man from the other and they know when a man is only after their looks and when a man is interested in what they really are. If you intend on dating a Russian girl, you should get to know her well.
There is something that is called the 3 second contract. It is simple and is a very effective way to pick up a Russian woman.
As you walk towards her, act as though you are talking to yourself. Look very pensive and thoughtful as thought there is a battle of ideas within yourself. Try not to display your nervousness though and maintain a cool outlook. Do this for precisely 3 seconds.
Then, act like you have made up your mind all of a sudden, go near her and say ‘Privet’. In the Russian language, Privet means hello , and it is a non-offensive and friendly way of starting a conversation with a woman. Your accent will let her know that you are a foreigner and she will take it from there.
Almost all Russians speak a foreign language, and if you are lucky it will be English or the language you speak. Today, English is everywhere, from business correspondence, television and movies. She will be interested in what you have to say, because she might get a little excited on knowing that you come from America.
Try out all the Russian words and phrases that you might know. This gives her the message that you respect her culture and traditions. It is certainly difficult to understand foreign languages and hence, you will both be in the same boat, so to speak. The typical Russian woman is extremely friendly and she will encourage and help you converse with her. In the three second you took to approach her, she would have gathered that you are interested, amiable and kind when you speak to her in Russian. You have already taken the first step towards a great friendship or relationship.
This unfortunately is not always what is going to happen. She may be otherwise engaged, or have her own reasons to decline your offer to chat. The fact that you tried is great, and you should do so when you find a woman that you meet her eyes across a room, or a street. Don not feel like you have to give up because one woman said no, just find another one and try it again.
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