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The significance of flirting has greatly increased in the past 2 decades. If you go back in history, you can quickly see the evolution of flirting why it plays an integral part in today’s society.

By the 1980’s everything changed. Not only was it 100 percent the responsibility of an individual to find relationships, but it became crucial that men know how to flirt with women.

For decades after this reform, the man and the woman took on new challenges. Women had to learn how to look sexy and weed out the uninteresting men. Men had to take control and approach the women they wanted. The fear of rejection became very real. Now it’s plain to see, that the men that know how to flirt become successful with women and the ones who don’t, take whatever they can get.

The first thing you need to know is that flirting is something learned and no one is born with a natural ability to flirt. Every man has had to learn how to do it and you can to.

These flirting tips have been used in my coaching seminars and proven to bring results. The best thing to do is try new things until you find what works. Enjoy these flirting tips:

Flirting Tips #1 - Make Physical Contact

You need to start communicating through physical communication. Flirting with physical communication is much more powerful than flirting through verbal communication. The first step, is to touch/grab her hand. I do this by seeing something interesting and then grabbing her hand to get her attention and point it out. Another easy way is if you are in a crowded scene and you move somewhere else, grab her hand and take her there instead of just having her follow. Palm reading also works. When I’m holding her hand, I will gently squeeze it and then toss it away as if she said something that could be offensive in some little way. She will feel that empty void on her hand after that and want to feel it again. You could also playfully slap her hand away if she is grabbing for something.

After you initiate the touch in a safe way, wait for her to touch you back. If she touches you back, then you are set to keep pursuing. If she doesn’t, you might want to consider she is not ready for that and you need to back off a little. Most importantly, if she is touching you, then she feels you are a safe man to be with. And finding safe men is one of the most important things to women. This is a touchy subject, and if applied at the right time, you are golden.

Flirting Tips #2 - Leave on a high - get her laughing

The most important part of a conversation is the same as the most important part of a speech, and that is the ending. The way you end and the feeling you give in that ending is what lasts and makes the final imprint about yourself. It’s the same thing as molding clay - you can mold clay however you want, but when you leave it, and it dries, that is what you have to remember it by.

For example, if you are planning on meeting up, don’t end off saying, “ya we will see you then, bye.” You want to end off with her laughing. So instead, say something like, “yeah just try not to embarrass me.” or “Don’t forget to paint your toe nails.” or “This is where you say you can’t wait to see me and hope you can keep your hands to yourself.”

Flirting Tips #3 - Remember to always qualify

Qualifying is not easy for men. Men seemed to be affected by a good looking woman and then go into this mood of wanting to please her in any way they can. They basically sell themselves until they present a deal that costs the woman nothing. If it costs the woman nothing to have you or lose you, then you can imagine what kind of value that gives her. Don’t lose your value - that’s what is making her want you. The best way to maintain your value is by qualifying.

You can do this by asking question like, “that’s a cool necklace did you get it traveling?” To keep it on the more flirty side you can do what is called roll reversal, “So are you going to ask me out or what?” or “You didn’t just tell me you liked hiking to get me to like you, did you?” Whatever you do, realize that you have no idea of what that good looking girl has to offer, so don’t treat her like she’s a queen, it doesn’t make sense.

Flirting Tips #4 - Props

Props are awesome to use when you want women to come up to you and talk to you. They’re also perfect for a fallback option when you need something to talk about that you know works every time. Props give you something to always talk about and move forward with.

For instance, you could have a bandanna that hangs out of your pocket or a hat that stands out or just a shirt that says something funny. Then, when they ask about the bandanna you can say something like, “it was a ruff time in my life I don’t think we are good enough friends to talk about this yet” then you can go into some funny story or whatever you want. The most important thing about this flirting tip is that it breaks the ice and gets the conversation rolling.

Flirting Tips #5 - Flirt through texting

Being successful with women is becoming easier and easier for men. Why? Because communication through text messaging, emails, and SMS text messages has became such an integral part in everyday communication. This is a gold mine for men. It gives you time to compose the right message (which also improves your real world flirting). You can also interact with more than one woman at once to increase your chances and build your confidence. Most importantly, texting and text messages cut out all the attraction triggers that often times hurt your chances, such as clothes, smile, breath, hair, etc. All you’re left with are words and timing.

Once you get the right words at the right time, you can expect a ton of success with women. And since most men fail at flirting in texting, you will stand above the rest, and you’ll see a lot of women responding desirably to you.

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