Most men live and breath to find the kind of woman who fulfills all their romantic fantasies, because this is the type of woman men will actively pursue for romantic reasons.

What men say, what they do - even the smallest things like an offhanded comment or the casual touch on the arm - can really stimulate a woman’s romantic imagination.

The real art of seduction is more than something you’re just “born with.” Art is something you can admire and learn from, it has nothing to do with natural talent.

Seduction is something which can only be achieved by learning about your ‘victim’, her passions, desires and needs, then using those to convince her you are the one she needs to go further with romantically.

Who are you, really? Are you confident about yourself, your needs and desires? Do you think you are attractive? Most men have a lot less confidence in themselves than they allow others to realize.

By stepping your game up a little, and practicing some confidence enhancing techniques, you are already well on your way there - there is nothing that a lot of women find more attractive than a man who is confident (not too confident!) in himself, sexually as well as otherwise.

Confidence allows you to find the courage to meet and interact with any woman you want. The average guy, who’s riddled with insecurities, will chicken out and let fear affect their success with women. But by developing your confidence, you’ll have an edge when it comes to getting the girl you desire.

Remember: Brave men won’t wive forever, but cautious ones won’t live at all!

Try and figure out what about you is attractive. Everyone has something they can point to and say “Yes, this is attractive.”

Learning how to utilize your best features (even if you think you have none) is essential to successful seductions. Whether it be your great attitude, full head of hair, or winning smile - whatever it is, you need to learn to work with what you got and capitalize on it!

Think about what women have previously liked about you, or commented positively on; not all women find the same features attractive, so you really need to focus on more than one. Choose something about your face to start with, this is the portal for all of your emotions and what she sees there can ultimately mean the difference between success and failure.

After you have pegged down your greatest assets, its time to bring them to the forefront and use them to seduce the girl you desire. While interacting with her, draw attention to them. Smile at her, make strong eye contact, throw out a joke or two - whatever you’ve determined are your most seductive attributes, use them!

And while you’re doing this, don’t forget about the romance you’re trying to create! Men tend to ignore romantic gestures, but women place a lot of importance on them.

Try and communicate your attraction to the woman without being too obvious. Forcing your interest on a girl will force her to choose whether or not she feels the same way before you’ve had a chance to lay the groundwork. You’ll want to come in under the radar and work on building interest before you make a serious move.

When dealing with women, you got to be brave. Take a chance at getting rejected. Allow yourself to flirt and joke and have fun with her. This will really seperate yourself from other men.

Seduction is all about taking your thoughts, feelings, actions, and ideas, and making them work for you to get a desired romantic outcome.

But don’t allow yourself to just “let things happen.” Proper seduction takes a lot of planning and premeditation to get right. That’s not to say you can rush a seduction, but you can make it so that things play out to your advantage.

Don’t rush her, let her lead, if you’ve truly seduced her she’ll probably make the first move, or let you know she’s ready and if you can follow that lead without pushing you’ve made it!

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