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(continued from part 1)

There was about a couple of times that I did the peacocking. I did that to see if it worked because I heard that other guys were doing it.

I felt ridiculous, and was totally incongruent with my personality when I went out.

Women pay attention to fashion and like a well-dressed man, as we all know.

When I was in my workout clothes, or was wearing something basic - like jeans and a tanktop, I noticed that some of my best pickups occurred in there.

At the same time, women definitely did not respond well to those muscled-up guys wearing revealing spandex, or super-tight shirts at the club.

This make me think… that maybe this is not on how much the clothes cost or how flashy they are…

I guess there is something else going on.

Actually, there are two things going on, and you must manage, or balance these two things.

The first thing is, never seek approval from women. You are totally toast, if a woman can tell you that you are trying to impress her or make her like you.

Women will see you coming a mile a way and put up their defenses if you look like you got dressed with the intention of getting their attention.

You shouldn’t have to look like a pick up artist.

To dress modestly and not put too much thought into it avails much.

However, you need to present yourself in the best way you can and not to look sloppy.

This comes back to self-expression.

You already have a sense what kind of man you are, what your “scene” is, what you think is cool.

Do not change that.

Instead, improve it, with these simple tweaks.

Wear colors that appeal to your skin tone and hair color. This isn’t rocket science. Go to an upscale men’s clothing store, and ask someone about this. Or look online.

Next, make sure your clothes are clean, and wrinkle free, and reasonably up-to-date. A woman should not have to worry about bringing you around her friends.

Lastly, make sure that your garments are well-fitted, in other words, they EMPHASIZE YOUR MASCULINE PHYSIQUE.

Square your shoulders and wear shirts that narrow your waist.

Wear pants that make your legs look long and thin.

Wear shoes that make your feet look big and well-formed.

Clean up yourself - nose, neck, and ear hairs. Get a respectable haircut. Figure out what looks great for if you shave or not to shave, and take it all the way.

Another thing…

Accessories should adhere off you loosely, and have a look of a small decoration that says, “yeah, I can fuck.”

Make out for your intuition with this one. I don’t want to say too much because that’s a whole other topic.

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